At the annual family-reunion picnic, a young bride led her husband over to an old woman busily crocheting in a rocker. "Granny," she said, touching the old woman's hand affectionately, "this is my new husband." The woman eyed him critically for a long moment, then asked abruptly, "Do you desire children?" Startled by her bluntness, the young man blushed and stammered, ""Well-uh-yes, I do very much." “Well," she said, looking scornfully at the large tribe gathered around the six picnic tables, "try to control it!" (Colleen Pifer)
Who can ever forget Winston Churchill's immortal words: "We
shall fight on the beaches, we shall fight on the landing grounds, we shall
fight in the fields and in the streets, we shall fight in the hills."
It sounds exactly like our family vacation. (Robert Orben)
Family! They are a lot of trouble sometimes, aren’t they? Nobody
gets on your nerves like family. Nobody can hurt you worse than your family.
Nobody can take advantage of you like family. And those are the good families.
Bad families are miserable as some of you well know. And being the father or
mother in a family is especially hard. Don’t you just wish the people in your
family would do what you tell them to do? Why don’t they understand that you
know what is best?
I was at the grocery store the other day and saw this little
toddler girl having a full-on melt down right there on the floor. Her dad was
standing there looking exhausted and looking around like he was looking for
somebody. I said, “Are you looking for your wife?” He said, “Nah,
she’s at home. I was just hoping to find somebody more adultier than me.”
Family – kids, parents, in-laws, grandparents, uncles and
aunts – they are going to be a problem. But they are also our most important
and valuable resources in our lives. It’s the same with church families.
We as a church spend a lot of time together and that can be wonderful and
fulfilling and sometimes y’all get on my last nerve. And I know I get on yours!
I know I do! Bless your hearts. It’s hard to have a family. It’s hard to be in
a family but I say all the time that I don’t know how some people get through
what they are going through without a church family.
Having a family is hard but it’s harder without a family and
that is part of the reason that Satan has always tried so hard to do away with
the family. He knows the family is God’s idea and it is the building block for
all of society and it is the original place for discipleship and Satan hates it
and will do anything in his limited power to destroy it.
I believe that effort to destroy the family is ramping up in
these last days before Jesus comes back but it is a satanic effort that has
been going on since the first family walked this earth. Satan has tried to kill
the family since Cain killed Abel and he wants to kill your family as well.
Now, God has a plan for your family and God is sovereign as
we saw last week but as we continue to learn who God is through our study of
the book of Exodus, we also see that we have to play a part. We have to do what
is best for our families and that means always always always being obedient to
what God tells us to do.
We learned in our study of Philippians that knowing God
better and being obedient to Him is what brings joy. When our families know God
and are obedient to Him, our families bring us joy. Living out the plan God has
for our lives and for the lives of our family brings great joy.
Turn to the book of Exodus and go on to chapter
two. In our effort to know God better, we are looking through Exodus to
find His qualities and attributes and we just want to know Him better. We saw
last week how the children of Israel got to Egypt. God brought them there in
his power and sovereignty and He will get them out of there through His power
and sovereignty but he is going to raise up a leader to get them out. That
leader is Moses.
But there is a problem. The new pharaoh doesn’t know his
history and couldn’t care less how great Joseph was back in the old days. All
he knows is there is getting to be way too many Hebrews in his country and he’s
afraid they are going to take over and he’s going to lose power. So, he decides
to enslave the Hebrews that were there and he decides he better start killing
off what Hebrew boys are born to stem this population explosion.
So, he pulls a Joe Biden and makes an executive order that
all Hebrew newborn baby boys are to be thrown into the Nile River. And while
pharaoh may be the sovereign leader of Egypt, he is about to find out that God
is sovereign over everything. Let’s pick it up in Exodus 2:1-10.
Now a man of the tribe of Levi married a Levite woman, 2and
she became pregnant and gave birth to a son. When she saw that he was a fine
child, she hid him for three months. 3But when she could hide him no longer,
she got a papyrus basket for him and coated it with tar and pitch. Then she
placed the child in it and put it among the reeds along the bank of the Nile.
4His sister stood at a distance to see what would happen to him. 5Then
Pharaoh's daughter went down to the Nile to bathe, and her attendants were
walking along the riverbank. She saw the basket among the reeds and sent her
female slave to get it. 6She opened it and saw the baby. He was crying, and she
felt sorry for him. "This is one of the Hebrew babies," she said.
7Then his sister asked Pharaoh's daughter, "Shall I go and get one of the
Hebrew women to nurse the baby for you?" 8"Yes, go," she
answered. So the girl went and got the baby's mother. 9Pharaoh's daughter said
to her, "Take this baby and nurse him for me, and I will pay you." So
the woman took the baby and nursed him. 10When the child grew older, she took
him to Pharaoh's daughter and he became her son. She named him Moses, saying,
"I drew him out of the water."
I remember reading this as a little kid and thinking, “Now,
what a minute! Mom puts him in the water. Then the princess finds him and then
gives him back to mom AND pays her! That’s crazy! Way to go God!” Even as a
kid, I could see that God was working all this out like only He could.
Can you imagine the fear that the Hebrew families lived in
trying to keep their baby boys quiet? You know how difficult that is? How
terrifying to know that if someone heard your little boy cry, they could rip
him from your arms and go throw him into the Nile River! One pastor said about v.
22: “Here there is a full-scale assault on the covenant people of God.”
But it wasn’t just a “full-scale assault on the covenant
people of God.” It was and still is a full-scale assault against the
family. It started in the Garden of Eden, continued here with Pharaoh, and is
raging even fiercer today. Pharaoh wasn’t just trying to weaken the Israelites
as a military threat. He hoped that this horrible decree would weaken their
faith in God and their commitment to Him. And Satan wants to do the same thing
to us – attack our families and weaken our faith in and commitment to God. (Jon
Daniels)
Do you remember watching Scooby Doo back in the day and the Scooby
Doo gang would catch the bad guy? They would then say all the stuff that would
have happened if they had not caught him and the bad guy would say, “Yea,
and I would have gotten away with it too if it hadn’t been for these pesky
kids!” You remember that?
I feel like Satan said something similar when Moses was
found safe. “I would have gotten away with it too if it hadn’t been for that
pesky family of Moses!” I want you to think about what his mother did for
Moses. In placing him in that basket, she worked out a God-given and
God-honoring plan for her child. It wasn’t easy. It wasn’t fair. It required a
lot of work and a lot of faith. Sound familiar moms?
She saw what was happening in her world and with God-given
wisdom made a plan and worked the plan. She built a little basket because I
doubt the Egyptian Walmart sold them. She knew where the princess would go to
bathe and when. She placed the little ark right where it would easily be found.
And then she had her little daughter just go hang around all nonchalant like
and wait to see what happened.
That took great faith to be able to do all of that. It takes
faith to just do what God tells you to do and believe that God’s plan will be
fulfilled and will be to our benefit and to His glory. That mama had faith. In Hebrews
11:25 it says, “By
faith Moses’ parents hid him for three months after he was born,
because they saw he was no ordinary child, and they were not afraid of the
king’s edict.”
Now, maybe you just have an ordinary child. You know, one
you don’t really care all that much about. You can take him or leave him. He’s
just ordinary. No big deal. You don’t have to be too concerned about that kid. 😊
But if your child is “no ordinary child” like Moses; if your child is no
ordinary child made in God’s image; no ordinary child loved by God and who was
died for by Jesus and loved by you then maybe you need to take some biblical
lessons from Moses’ mom.
Everything about this situation drives Satan crazy. Notice
first that Moses had one mother and one father. That in itself is sexist,
racist, bigoted and anti all the lgbtq letters they can come up with and the
world, inspired by Satan, wants to get rid of that kind of thinking that God
designed, created and said, “That is very good.”
Notice that the father and the mother were married. Also
outdated and harmful if you ask the world today. Let me ask you a question.
When you buy a car, do you take it for a test drive? Of course you do. It just
makes sense, right? You want to know if you and this car are going to be
compatible. How does it run? Does everything on it work? How does it handle?
Well, if it makes sense with a car, it ought to make sense
with a woman, right? No! There is a big difference between driving a car and
living with a woman. And there are all kinds of jokes you can make right here
but I won’t. Ok, just two. At least cars come with an owner’s manual. And at
least you can control a car. But they are not meant to be taken for a test
drive!
1 Corinthians 7:2 says, “But because of the
temptation to sexual immorality, each man should have his own wife and each
woman her own husband.” Sex before marriage or outside of marriage is
sexual immorality and there are dozens of places in scripture that make it
clear that is sinful and that relationship will not be blessed by God.
But perhaps the most impressive thing Moses’ mother did was
to have the faith that God would protect and provide. She did the best she
could with the basket and I’m sure that was a lot of work, placed him in the
best spot, kissed him goodbye and waited on God. Mamas, that’s all you can do
sometimes.
Ephesians 6:4 says, to bring up your child in the discipline
and instruction of the Lord. That is not going to happen at their public
school. The public school is not your child’s friend anymore and will
indoctrinate them into everything worldly as soon as possible so be aware of
what is going on there and get them into Christian school if at all possible. And
I know that’s not easy.
But bringing your child up in the discipline and instruction
of the Lord is your job, nobody else. You have to train them and bring them up in
the way they should go as it says in Proverbs 22:6 and they will not
depart from it. And all of that is hard and it’s not fair but it is what you
are called to do as a parent and sometimes even as a grandparent.
But at some point, you have to let them go. Hopefully it’s
not at three months old like Moses’ mom had to do but even if it is, you have
to know God. You have to know that He is sovereign. He doesn’t ask your
permission before He does anything. He is sovereign but He is also good! Look
at what comes of Moses and his life. God had a plan for him all along and God could
have allowed Moses to be raised in any way, in any generation, in any country
but God chose then and there for a reason and we will see that reason in the
coming weeks.
But lastly, look at how God uses the family of Moses. Like I
said, God could have had Moses raised by any family anywhere but God could also
have had Moses raised by wolves or raised by nobody at all. God could have used
baby Moses to lead the Israelites out of Egypt if He wanted to. But God chose
to use the family of Moses. Why?
Why them? Psalm 127 says children are a gift from the Lord.
I know. I know. They don’t always feel like a gift but they are and God gave you
those gifts for the same reason He gave Moses to his mother. God loves you and
wants to bless you.
Make no mistake, God doesn’t need your help to get His will
accomplished. But He allows us to be part of His plan so that He can bless us.
Think about all the great miracles God did in the Bible. Some of them He did
completely by Himself with man playing no part. He spoke the universe into
existence for instance. But so many times God used men and women to accomplish
His will. Even stories like parting the Red Sea, He allowed Moses to play a
part. All he had to do was lift up his hands but God used him and blessed him.
God could have had Jesus just show up to earth as a full-grown
man like He did with the angels sometimes but He used Mary and Joseph and their
family to bring about His greatest work. God doesn’t need your help to
accomplish His will but He allows us to be in certain circumstances through His
sovereign power to be able to use us so He can bless us.
So many times those circumstances are difficult and painful
circumstances too. So many times God allows us to go through difficult times so
He can use us to help somebody else and we get blessed for doing it. Sometimes
it’s even in this life that we are blessed but we will always be blessed for
eternity. And all we have to do is always always always be obedient to what God
tells us to do.
It’s hard work raising kids. The world wants to kill them or
at least pervert them. The internet is just waiting for them. Schools and
colleges are waiting like hungry wolves to destroy them. The TV will ruin them
if you let it. I know letting them watch videos is easier than trying to teach
them something but they are learning every second of every day and you have to
be the one to teach them.
Deuteronomy 6:7 says, “Repeat [God’s commands]
again and again to your children. Talk about them when you are at home and when
you are on the road, when you are going to bed and when you are getting up.”
Your child is no ordinary child. But it’s going to take a
lot of work from you and while all-powerful and sovereign God could make that
child to be whatever He wants that kid to be, He has put you in this position
as a parent or a grandparent for such a time as this, as Mordecai would say. (Esther
4:14) And He is using you so He can bless you because He loves you.
I don’t know how people get through this life with no church
family. We aren’t perfect. We love each other and want to help each other but
sometimes we – I – make mistakes and even make things worse. But we’re family,
God’s family and so we ask for and give forgiveness and move on, growing in the
Lord.
Do you have that? If today you don’t have a church family, this
would be a good day to join us. We don’t have any rules and a bunch of us are
downright hoodlums but we love each other and care for each other. All we ask
is for you to be a true believer and follower of Jesus.
Ask God today for forgiveness of all your many sins and then
repent or turn away from those sins and that lifestyle. Allow Him to come into
your life and change you from the inside out. Do it right now as the music
plays.