In honor of Mother’s Day, I want some mothers to tell real
briefly about how they heard the news that they were pregnant for the first
time. Did you take a home pregnancy
test? Did the doc tell you? Or did you
just know? Or maybe your husband just
told you, “Hey, you’re getting fat.”
How did you feel when you heard the news? Were you scared, excited, worried?
A little boy went to his dad and said, “Daddy, where did I come from?” The dad, not wanting to get into all that
with such a young kid, said, “Your mother hatched you from an egg in a nest.”
He went to his mama
and asked her where SHE came from. His
mother said, “Well, the stork brought me.”
So, he goes to grandma
and asks her where SHE came from and his grandmother told him that God had
formed her.
The little boy goes back to one of his little friends and
says, “You know, there hasn’t been a normal birth in our family in 3
generations.”
Is there such a thing as a “normal” birth? Oh, sure, doctors see it every day. It’s no big deal to them but to me, every
birth is a crazy miracle. And the birth
may turn out like the doctor expected it to, but there’s not much that is
normal when you give birth to a baby.
Your version of “normal” just changed forever. It’s no over-statement to say that a baby
changes everything.
When you are around a pregnant woman, what does she want to
talk about? The sky may be falling and
the grass is turning blue but the question on her mind is, “Which stroller is
safest? What should I be eating? How many diapers should I buy? How long before that husband of mine brings
me some chocolate???”
And there is not only the physical aspect of pregnancy but I
don’t know how mothers do it mentally.
It would freak me out knowing I had to take care of myself and the baby
when there are so many decisions to make.
What to eat, what to drink, what to wear, where to go, when to go, is
the baby gonna be normal, what to name him, what color is the nursery going to
be?
It’s a miracle anybody ever gets through it, much less the
baby. But the birth of a baby is one of
the greatest miracles God has ever done.
And like I said, it happens every day.
But what if you were…the one mother?
What if your child was to be THE Child?
What if you were carrying…the Christ child? No pressure there, right?
How did Mary not just freak smooth out when she found
out? And, oh, how she found out! She didn’t have a doctor to do a blood
test. The rabbit didn’t die for
Mary. No, she had none other than the
angel Gabriel come to her house and say, “Hey, how ya doing? I’m Gabriel, sent from God, to tell you that
you are the one chosen from all women in creation to carry the baby Jesus. But don’t worry about anything, ok? Have a good day!”
What would be your response?
How would you handle that kind of news?
Well, let’s look at Luke chapter 1 to see what Mary’s response was. It’s a story we normally only study around
Christmas time but it is very appropriate for today. I like Luke’s account of the story. I read a commentary that said Luke was a good
person to tell this story because he was a doctor and would know full well how
babies were born. Well…I’m pretty sure
you don’t have to be a doc to understand the fundamentals but Luke is very
thorough like you would expect of a doctor.
So let’s turn to Luke 1:26-38.
In
the sixth month of Elizabeth’s pregnancy, God sent the angel Gabriel to
Nazareth, a town in Galilee, 27 to a virgin pledged to be married to a man named
Joseph, a descendant of David. The virgin’s name was Mary. 28 The angel went to her and said, “Greetings, you
who are highly favored! The Lord is with you.”29 Mary was
greatly troubled at his words and wondered what kind of greeting this might be.
30 But the angel said to her, “Do not be
afraid, Mary; you have found favor with God. 31 You
will conceive and give birth to a son, and you are to call him Jesus. 32 He will be great and will be called the Son of
the Most High. The Lord God will give him the throne of his father David,
33 and he will reign over Jacob’s descendants
forever; his kingdom will never end.”34 “How will this be,”
Mary asked the angel, “since I am a virgin?”35 The angel
answered, “The Holy Spirit will come on you, and the power of the Most High
will overshadow you. So the holy one to be born will be called[a] the Son of God. 36 Even
Elizabeth your relative is going to have a child in her old age, and she who
was said to be unable to conceive is in her sixth month. 37 For no word from God will ever fail.”38 “I
am the Lord’s servant,” Mary answered. “May your word to me be fulfilled.” Then
the angel left her.
I’m quite sure that no first-time
mother has ever been completely prepared for what motherhood would bring.
Nobody could ever be completely prepared for the joy and the heartache that it
brings. Nobody could prepare for the laughter and the tears or be ready
to have their heart broken or be prepared for their child’s heart to be broken
like all mothers experience.
How much more those things, the wild
pendulum of emotions that would soon come to Mary? Probably just a
teenager, Mary had yet to experience a lot of things in life and yet now she is
to be the caretaker for the Savior of the world. And yet here we see
young Mary had faithful obedience to what God had planned for her life.
I want to look closer at that phrase
“faithful obedience” this morning. We would all like to think that we had
faithful obedience to God but what does it really mean? What does it look
like to have faithful obedience as a mother…as a person? Mary truly was, in the
literal sense of that first word, full of faith. She was faithful.
I spent some time this past week up in
the mountains of Oklahoma close to Arkansas at my cousin’s little cabin in the
woods. It is a beautiful, quiet, peaceful place where I like to go to get
away from the computer and TV and telephone. I took my Bible and some commentaries
and just spent some time thinking about this passage.
I brought something back that helped me
understand this passage just a little bit better. It’s a leaf.
There is nothing special about this leaf. It looks just like all the
others up there. But I want to ask you a question. Do you believe
that God made this leaf? Sure you do. Even a little child can
understand that God made the leaves.
Have you ever made a leaf? Have
you ever made a real leaf out of nothing? Have you ever truly created
anything out of nothing, especially something as beautiful as a leaf? If
you had all of the resources known to man and money was no object and you had
all the scientific knowledge in the world, could you make one leaf out of
nothing? Of course not.
And yet, how many leaves are on one
tree? How many trees are there in the world? And we believe that
God made them all and yet so many people get hung up on the virgin birth.
If God can make a leaf; if He can make a tree and a mountain and a sunrise and
sunset; if He can part the Red Sea, make a donkey talk and float an axe head
and even sell the Runaway Bay property, then why would you think that He can’t
make a baby in an unconventionally miraculous way?
One of the commentaries I took up there
to help shed light on this passage is written by a very smart man that I go to
a lot to help understand different passages. And when I opened it to the
part of Luke chapter one where it talks about the angel coming to Mary, he says
that this is not to be taken literally. It is just “a beautiful way of
stressing the presence of the Spirit of God in family life.” (Barclay, Family
Study Bible Series)
He goes on to explain all the reasons
he thinks so. I was amazed! Toward the end of the book he says with
confidence that Jesus died on the cross but was raised again and lives
today. He didn’t have any problem with that! But virgin
birth? That couldn’t happen.
But look at Mary’s response to
Gabriel. Of all the people who should be skeptical; only she knew for
sure that she was a virgin. Only she was there to see the angel. Of
all people she should have doubted and yet look at what she says in verse 34. “How will this be since I am a virgin?” She’s not doubting
like Zechariah did in verse 18.
She just needs a little clarification
and the angel knows that so he tells her simply that the Holy Spirit is going
to be in control of all that. And that’s all she needs to hear. She
didn’t ask the obvious questions that must have flooded her mind. “What
am I going to tell Joseph? What will my family think? What will the
neighbors think?” There is no way that she understood it all. And
yet she was full of faith.
And do you know what faith
brings? When God tells you to do something, He rarely tells you the whole
story. He just tells you what to do and when you, full of faith, just do
what He says, do you know what always comes with that faith? Peace comes
with that faith. Romans 5:1 says, “Therefore, since we have been justified
through faith, we have peace with God through our Lord Jesus
Christ,”
In Mark 5:34 Jesus tells the bleeding
woman who touched Him, “Dear woman, your faith has healed you. Go in peace.” There is a
direct connection between faith and peace. Hebrews 11:6 says, “And
without faith it is impossible to please him, for whoever would draw near to
God must believe that he exists and that he rewards those who seek him.”
And one of those rewards is peace. And we know that Mary had peace.
“I am the Lord’s servant. May your word to me be fulfilled.” She didn’t
understand. She just believed.
She believed that if God brought her to
it, He would bring her through it. She believed because she had read the
old scriptures where God had proven Himself faithful for all those years and
because God was faithful, she could be full of faith. So why worry if God
is in control? All she had to do is be obedient. Ah! But that
was the trick, right?
It’s one thing to say we believe; to
say we have faith. We might say we are the Lord’s servant…but how, but
why, but when? I’m going to have to fix this. I gotta do
something. But obedience is a combination of us doing what we are
supposed to do and then just allowing God to do what He wants to do. Do
you know what obedience is not?
Obedience is not worry. Philippians
4:6 says not to be anxious about anything and so that makes worry a
sin. Worry is not obedience. Do you know what obedience is?
Obedience is prayer. The rest of that beautiful verse in Philippians
says but in everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your
requests be made known to God. So obedience is not worry.
Obedience is prayer and even thanksgiving to God.
Obedience says, “I don’t understand
this. I don’t know how this is going to work out. It doesn’t make
any sense to me. But, Lord, I have faith in you. I have faith in
you in spite of my circumstances. And I give you thanks in spite of my
circumstances. In fact, I give you thanks FOR my circumstances.”
A.W. Tozer said, “The Bible recognizes no faith that does not lead to obedience,
nor does it recognize any obedience that does not spring from faith. The two
are opposite sides of the same coin.” And do you know what obedience
brings? We saw that faith brings peace. Well, when you have done
everything you are supposed to do; when you have prayed and thanked God for
what you are going through, and you haven’t been worrying, then you can just
relax and have joy. Obedience always
brings joy.
Several years ago I decided I was going
to find out how to get joy. I wanted to know
what the Bible said about how to get it and how to keep it. So, I scoured the Bible. I looked at the people who had joy. I read what it said about joy. I did word studies, book studies, people
studies and everything I read led me to one thing. To have joy, you have to be obedient.
Anytime you see somebody in the Bible
with true joy, you look close and you will see that they were being
obedient. Paul – obedient Paul, right? –
Paul, probably more than anybody else talks about joy. Paul, who had more physical problems and
struggles than anybody else says in 2
Corinthians 7:4, “I am greatly encouraged; in all our troubles my joy knows no bounds.”
And the world would say that is
impossible because for the world, joy and happiness are the same thing. Their state of mind fluctuates with their
circumstances. When things are bad, they
are depressed but Paul knew what Mary knew what some of you know that when you
are obedient to God; when you are doing what He has told you to do and no more
and no less then you can just relax and have joy because the one who made the
leaves is in control and He loves you!
Dr. B.J. Miller
once said, "It is a great deal
easier to do that which God gives us to do, no matter how hard it is, than to
face the responsibilities of not doing it." (Today In The Word, November, 1989,
p.11.) Have you ever had to face the
responsibility of not doing what God has told you to do? It’s miserable, isn’t it?
I’ve said before that there was a period in my life that I
spent away from God. I went were I
wanted to go, I did what I wanted to do and I said what I wanted to say. And I have never wanted to die any more than
I did back then. I had no joy. I had no peace. Because I was not faithful and I was not
obedient.
Look, we are making this harder than it has to be. Do you want joy and peace? Then go where God wants you to go, do what He
wants you to do and say what He wants you to say. And you don’t have to worry about the
consequences because you are not in control.
God is.
But the reason this is harder than it has to be is because
the world doesn’t want us to live that way.
The world wants us to live like them.
Misery loves company. And so
everywhere you go there is someone or something trying to distract you. “Hey, look over here. Something shiny!”
Look one more time at how Mary answered the angel in verse 38. “I am the Lord’s servant. May
your word to me be fulfilled.” How
refreshing that must be for God to hear.
She didn’t say what we usually say.
“But God, I can’t because… But
God, I won’t because… That’s not
fair. I don’t understand. I can’t afford it. What will the neighbors say?”
No.
She simply said with faithful obedience, “I am the Lord’s servant.” That’s what God wants to hear from you today
as well. Honestly tell Him that you are
His servant and He will give to you the peace and the joy you have been looking
for. Let’s do that right now. As the music plays…
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