Sunday, May 17, 2015

“True Disciples in the Real World” – Love – 1 Cor. 13


Are you sick of the presidential election campaigns yet?  If not, you will be.  It’s 540 days from now until November 8, 2016; almost exactly a year and a half and already you have nearly a dozen people clamoring on every news channel about how they should be the next U.S. president and why all the others are completely unfit for the job.  For the next year and a half we will have to hear people bragging, stretching the truth, claiming they were misunderstood and flat-out lying – and that is just from the media covering the election!

Don’t you wish somebody would come along who was well-spoken, extremely smart and wise about the ways of the world; somebody that could genuinely unite our country; somebody that could solve the tax problems, education, religion, healthcare, infrastructure; somebody that could speak multiple languages and able to unite not just the U.S but the world?  I would vote for that guy to be king of the world, wouldn’t you?

Well…congratulations.  We just voted for the antichrist.  That is what the antichrist is going to be like, at least for a while.  Scary, huh?  The Bible teaches that we as believers will not be here when the antichrist comes on the scene in power.  We will already be raptured or gone on in death.  But the antichrist will be a great presidential candidate because he will have the gift of being able to do everything I just said and more.  He will be a wonderful leader for a few years but then his true dark side will come out and will lead ultimately to the end of the world.

So what makes the difference in a world leader with all those gifts being a great leader…and one that is the worst ever?  The difference is love.  The antichrist will have everything in the world going for him.  I suspect he will be tall, dark and handsome with lots of good camera hair.  He will have all the right answers and be able to solve all the world’s problems.  But he will have no real love.

It’s easy for us to hate the antichrist.  As the bride of Christ, we as His church hate anything that is against Christ, right?  But what if we look at ourselves real closely?  Do you have gifts?  Of course you do.  Everybody is gifted in at least one way.  Some people are able to do some things that others can’t and in doing so allow the church as a whole to minister to those around us.  But the question is, do you have love?

As we conclude our series on how to be “True Disciples in the Real World” in 1 Corinthians, we see that Paul says in chapter 13 that even if you have all of the best and greatest gifts that if you don’t use those gifts in love then you- are -nothing.

But none of us are like that, are we?  Nobody would say they don’t love people.  We all love folks, right?  Well, Paul includes in this passage a little test that we can all take to just see the status of our love.  Just how much do we love?  Are we doing it right?  Are we doing it at all?  Turn to 1 Corinthians chapter 13, – the love chapter – and let’s read this beautiful hymn of love Paul wrote to the church in Corinth. 1 Corinthians 13:1-7

If I speak in the tongues of men or of angels, but do not have love, I am only a resounding gong or a clanging cymbal. If I have the gift of prophecy and can fathom all mysteries and all knowledge, and if I have a faith that can move mountains, but do not have love, I am nothing. If I give all I possess to the poor and give over my body to hardship that I may boast but do not have love, I gain nothing. Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.

This has been called the most beautiful passage in the Bible.  It is the most popular passage read at weddings, and for good reason.  Chrysostom, who lived in the third century, adds that here Paul makes an outline of love’s matchless beauty, adorning its image with all aspects of virtue, as if with many colors brought together with precision.  Or, as we say in Wise County:  That’s real purty writin’ right there!

So, is it just “real purty writin’” or is there something that we can learn from it?  Well, let me answer that question by pointing out the description of two different types of people here.  Verses 1-3 describe one type of person and verses 4-7 describe another.  Look back at the first type in verses 1-3.

This person is described as speaking in the tongues of men and angels.  We know that men speak all different kinds of languages but what language do angels speak?  The Bible doesn’t tell us but if anybody might know it would be Paul.  In 2 Corinthians 12:4 Paul says he was caught up to paradise and heard inexpressible things, things that no one is permitted to tell.  We don’t know if that included the speaking of angels but I believe what Paul is really trying to say is that even if he could speak and minister to every person and being ever created, if he didn’t have love he might as well be just making noise.

But he goes on to describe this type of person as having the gift of prophesy and commentaries tell us this word properly means to predict future events, but it also means to declare the divine will or to be the mouthpiece of God.  Paul says this type of person has all knowledge and all faith as well.  That’s pretty big talk.  This hypothetical person Paul describes would be an incredible person.  He might replace that guy in the commercial who claims to be the most interesting man in the world.

Or he might be describing a great boss or a great leader.  He is describing someone – this great person who does not have love – who does have religion.  As a pastor I see religion a lot.  But you might be surprised by where I see it and where I don’t.  The most common place I see religion is outside of these walls.  I see religion in the guy who tells me how long he has gone to church when I ask him about his salvation experience.

I see religion in the lady who tells me “the man upstairs” told her she didn’t need to go to church.  I see it in the businessman who donated $100 to our food pantry but then bad-mouthed anybody that might use it.  Religion shows up when people want God to do something for them.  Karl Marx may have said, “Religion is the opium of the masses” and I think that may be true as we are talking about religion.

Religious people take pride in being able to speak to all kinds of people, having the gift of prophesy and having all knowledge and even in their sacrifices to the poor like this passage is talking about.  They like religion because religion makes them feel better about themselves.  It’s like giving a pain-killer to a sick person.  It makes them feel better but has not treated the problem.  Paul says this kind of person gains nothing.

But Paul goes on to describe another type of person.  Starting in verse 4, Paul describes someone who has more than just religion.  This person…has a relationship.  If you have ever been married you hopefully know that sometimes you have to do things that you don’t necessarily feel like doing.  Sometimes you have to make the choice to do what is best for the other person when you know it will not turn out well or easy for you.

A couple drove several miles down a country road, not saying a word. An earlier discussion had led to an argument, and neither wanted to concede their position. As they passed a barnyard of mules and pigs, the husband sarcastically asked, "Relatives of yours?" "Yep," the wife replied, "In-laws."

That is not the kind of love Paul is talking about here.  The kind of love that Paul is talking about is agape love – the kind of love with which God loves us.  In fact, we know that God loves us because as John 3:16 says, He sent His only Son to die for us and 1 John 4:8 says God is love but as we read through these again you can substitute the name of Jesus for the word love here.

Jesus is patient.  Jesus is kind.  Jesus does not envy or boast and is not proud.  Jesus isn’t rude; isn’t self-seeking; is not easily angered.  Jesus keeps no record of wrongs nor does He delight in evil.  Jesus always protects, always trusts, always hopes and always perseveres.  Now the question is, can your name be put in that place?

In the execution of your God-given gifts, can your name be put in place of the word “love”?  Notice how Paul segways from chapter 12 to chapter 13.  Chapter 12 talks about the gifts we have but then he says at the very end of the chapter, “And now I will show you the most excellent way.”  He is saying that this is the most excellent way to utilize those gifts and that is with love.

So, whatever gift or gifts you may have, whether it be the gift of serving, teaching, exhortation, giving, leadership or mercy or whatever God has given you, can your name be substituted for love?  Are you patient?  The Greeks that Paul was writing to would have felt this to be a sign of weakness but which is more difficult; to be patient or to lose your temper with somebody?

Is a child usually patient?  I hear people sometimes give the excuse that they are impatient or they are rude or blunt or mean or whatever because that is the way their daddy was or their mama was and I want to say, “Oh, so your daddy was childlike and he never taught you to grow up?  I understand now.”  We didn’t read verse 11 of this chapter but Paul says, “When I was a child, I talked like a child, I thought like a child, I reasoned like a child. When I became a man, I put the ways of childhood behind me.”

Love is patient.  Jesus is patient.  Are you patient or are you childlike?  Love is also kind.  Are you kind in the execution of your gifts?  There was no more religious a man than Phillip the Second of Spain, and yet he founded the Spanish Inquisition and thought he was serving God by massacring those who thought differently than him.  (Barclay p. 120)

Oh Pastor Todd, I must be ok then because I hardly ever massacre anybody!”  No?  Well that’s good but how many people have you critiqued to death?  Do you criticize people unmercifully?  Would you want to be criticized like that?  Love is kind.  Are you kind?

What about envy?  That’s next in line here.  Love does not envy.  “Oh, no, Todd, I’m never envious.  Sure I struggle with being patient and kind but not with jealousy or envy.”  Really?  Because a lot of times when we struggle with patience or kindness it is because we envy.  We envy something that they have or a relationship or position that we want and we are angry about it inside and that manifests itself as being critical or impatient with them. (Stedman p. 252)

Paul says, “Love does not boast.”  Can you insert your name right there?  Nobody likes a braggart.  When somebody starts a sentence by saying, “Now I don’t want to blow my own horn but…”  Don’t you want to say, “Well then stop right there and don’t because nobody wants to hear you blow your own horn!”?  Or they say, “It’s not bragging if it’s true.”  That’s dumb.  Yes, it’s still bragging and nobody wants to hear that.

I want you to think about a more subtle form of bragging or boasting, if you will, though.  We all struggle with it some, I think, but it drives me batty.  One of my ultimate pet peeves is when I am in the middle of a sentence and the person I am talking to starts to talk and interrupts me.  Nothing screams louder, “I don’t care what you are saying.  I can’t wait for you to hear what I am saying!”  That is being boastful.  True love; agape love…listens.

When I was a teenager I was really into cars and trucks and anything with an engine.  I would drag home some piece of junk and I would be out in the driveway working on it with the hood up and I can remember my mama coming out to check on me.  I would tell her about what I was working on and how this Ford truck has a 390 engine with dual exhaust and headers.  The Holley carb sits on top of an Edelbrock intake and blah, blah, blah on and on and she just listened.

I thought my mom was interested in engines!  I asked her not too long ago about that.  We laughed about how many hours she had to be out there listening to me ramble on about that stupid stuff and I told her how back then I thought she was interested in engines.  She said she was interested in engines.  She was interested in what I was interested in because she loved me.  She “agaped” me.  True love listens.

Moving on quickly, love is not proud.  I was talking to somebody this week who said they used to work out in the same gym as W.A. Criswell, pastor of FBC Dallas.  First Baptist Dallas had thousands of members but this man I was talking to said that every time he saw Criswell, the mighty preacher known around the world, that Criswell made him feel like he was his best friend.  He took time to talk and fellowship with him and made him feel special.  He had that gift.  Criswell wasn’t proud.  Love isn’t proud. Jesus isn’t proud.  Are you proud?

Are you rude; self-seeking; easily angered?  Are you any of these things?  I’m not going to take the time to go through this whole list.  We will talk more about them tonight.  But the difference in someone who has all these great gifts and uses them for themselves or uses them for God’s kingdom is one has religion and one has a relationship.

Satan and one of his demons were walking down the road one day and they were following a man who was walking.  They saw the man reach down and pick up something shiny.  The demon asked Satan, “What did he just pick up?”  Satan replied, “He picked up a little bit of truth.”  “Doesn’t that concern you,” asked the demon.  “No, I’ll just make sure he makes it into a religion.”

Every other religion has some little piece of truth.  Maybe not Scientology but every other one has a little bit of truth to it and people glob onto that little piece of truth and they make that their religion but they don’t have that relationship.  But because we are Christians we are able to love as God loves.  Because that agape love is the kind of love that we get from God but it is also the kind of love that God gives us to love others.

That is the difference is using our gifts to benefit ourselves or our religion and being able to use those gifts to further the Kingdom.  The question is do you love?  Let me just tell you that Christ Fellowship is not impressing the Southern Baptist Convention.  Christ Fellowship is not the talk around the watercooler at Harvest Association.  It’s just not.  That’s reserved for the big churches with the big money.

But do you know who Christ Fellowship is impressing?  We are impressing; we are meeting the needs of Lake Bridgeport and of Wise County.  Because I see that in y’all.  I see you using your gifts impacting and impressing the folks we were called to minister to.  We were called to minister to – not the Southern Baptist Convention or Harvest Association but we were called to go to Lake Bridgeport, Wise County and the world.

I see you doing that because you have love.  One last thing Paul says is that love rejoices with the truth.  It does not look for evil.  The word might be used to say it overlooks evil but it also speaks the truth in love.  As one who is working on speaking the truth in love, let me tell you that it doesn’t matter how many times you go to church or where or what your family has done for God in the past.  If you don’t have that relationship then it doesn’t matter how many great gifts you have Paul says, not Todd, but Paul says you are nothing.  Even if you just have one little gift you can make a difference if you use that gift in love.

That’s the difference.  So, now I hear you saying that you are going to try to be more loving.  You are going to try to love more and love better and not be so impatient and you are going to try to be more kind, etc.  Well you have heard me wrong because that same love that we get from God is that ability to do these things in love.  The ability to do these things in love comes from being obedient.
Show me someone who is envious or impatient or not kind and I will show you someone who is not obedient.  I will show you someone who has a relationship problem.  I’m not saying we shouldn’t try to be more loving.  I’m saying we should try to be more obedient because that agape love that only God provides only comes out in obedience.  If you don’t have that relationship with Jesus then I need to talk about that right

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